Do you know the “symptoms” of a
sexually confident woman? Could you already be one?
Let me give you a check list to
see if maybe you have some possible aspects of a sexual confident woman:
1. Women who not only enjoy their
sexuality, but actively pursues erotic and sensual pleasures.
2. Women who do not feel
dependent on their partner for the expression of their sexuality.
3. Women who are confident about
their relationship with their own body.
4. Women who have an
understanding or desire to understand sex skills — and have cultivated the
belief that they are “good at sex” and they seek out information to give
themselves more sexual self confidence and expression.
5. Women who think about sex and
are curious about sex.
6. Women who have a sense of
their sexual anatomy; they self pleasure and enjoy touching their own bodies.
7. Women who explore the world of
sexual fantasy and adventure as well as cultivate these qualities in
themselves.
8. Women who express themselves
as a sexual being by the clothes they wear.
9. Women who rejected the
traditional shaming leverages that society has often used to keep women
attached to the idea that sex is something that they can ONLY feel and express
in a committed “love relationship.”
10. Women who do not judge
“casual sex.”
11. Women who are able to express
their “Yes” and their “No.”
12. Women who are able to hold
their erotic boundaries.
13. Women who are supportive of
other women having pleasure in their own lives.
14. Women who don’t shame other
women for how they dress or for their body size.
In general, sexually confident
women who actively pursue sexual pleasure in their lives have broken through
the traditional scripts that some sexual behaviors are only appropriate for
men. Sexually confident women can also feel that having their sexuality be
fully expressed is an important component of their lives. So, how are you
doing? Are you catching the bug?
Got one or more symptoms of
sexual wellness?
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