Here are some serious questions you will have to answer at least once in your relationship .and it also help ascertain the health of the relationship.
Tell me about your ex:
As might be expected, the topic of the ex is bound to come
up at some point in the relationship. It is okay to ask why they broke up and
whether they are still friends. This conversation becomes dangerous when you
start obsessing over it and ask questions like ‘is she hotter than me’ or
‘between me and her, who is the better kisser’. When you constantly bring up
his ex, you come across as hopelessly insecure.
How many lovers have you had
Nothing positive can come out of this one. Whatever he did
in his past is between him and his conscience. Questions about numbers only
beget more questions and create more insecurity. It is none of your business
how many women he has slept with. The only thing you need to know about his
S-EX”-xual past is whether he’s disease free. ‘How many women have you had s’εx
with is blond. What should bother you is, “Do you have an STD”
I’m I the best you have ever had
It sounds sεxy and seductive when you ask, but you only reek
more of your insecurities. Chances are, you are not the best he has ever had
and hearing him say that will demoralise you. Most men won’t come right out and
say it, so you end up putting him in a difficult situation where he has to lie
because he wants you to feel confident and beautiful on a daily basis.
Do you love me
If a man truly loves you, he will let you know. Asking him
this question puts him on the spot and he will most likely lie to avoid hurting
your feelings or tell you the truth and hurt your feelings. Either way, the
outcome is undesirable. Those three little words should not be forced out of
someone. Men do not always wear their emotions on their sleeves but that
doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you.
Do you see a future with me
This question is perfectly appropriate and even important to
ask after you have been dating for a while. The timing makes all the
difference. Needless to say, there is a problem with asking this question early
on in the relationship. There is a big chance that you will just scare him off
if you begin addressing the “serious” issues before you are far enough into the
relationship
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